Why She Says "Nothing" When She's Clearly Upset

I was on a snowboarding trip and while in a cabin with a group of friends, I found myself talking to a single 34 year old man who insisted that women are confusing. He said if he asked a woman what's wrong and she said, "nothing," then he would just leave her alone and that would make her even more mad. I told him that's exactly what he's not supposed to do and that there is a right thing to do in this situation.


Don't get me wrong. A mature woman would communicate her feelings, rather than saying "nothing" and expecting the guy to guess. However, some women aren't quite there yet and walking away when she says "nothing" won't help her to realize what she needs to do in the future.

Why do women say "nothing" if they're clearly upset?

When Should You Say 'I Love You'?





In the past, I have been guilty of carelessly throwing around such a weighted word to almost every guy I had "strong" feelings for.

One of my relationships, I let the whirlwind feeling take me away and it took all but three months before I couldn't contain my feelings anymore and I blurted out to him that I loved him. And he said it back.
There are two types of 'love' in a relationship.
There's the 'Everything is Going So Well Because We're Still In The Honeymoon Phase and