How It Happened: Break Down of the Breakup

Two months ago, I woke up. I couldn't remember any feelings from the past six months. I could recall events that happened and even some conversations, but they weren't my memories. I was numb to those six months and remembering

To The Man Who Shattered My Heart Into a Million Fucking Pieces

It's been a little over a month and I want to tell you something very real.

I've been so patient and respectful of your wishes this entire time especially because you've asked me to but I haven't gotten any of that back from you. You've been so selfish and inconsiderate of my feelings. I think because you were sick growing up, you're used to people taking care of you and being polite to you, taking your feelings into consideration before their own and I was doing that too but I'm fucking sick of it. Being sick doesn't give you a right to be a fucking selfish asshole.

What School Didn't Prepare Me For: Relationships After College




You start dating someone. But both of you want to seem cool and secure and completely confident in yourself so NO WAY would you ever want to be the one to bring up talking about your status or where you stand or feelings. I mean, come on, you're obviously too cool for that and so is this person you're dating. You just keep dating and dating and not defining anything and by doing this, you could essentially have your cake and eat it too. Why? Because American dating culture says that if you don't label your relationship or talk about your exclusivity status, you are technically allowed to sleep with a different person every day and the person you're dating can't really get upset. I mean, obviously they would be because that's disgusting but then they'd seem like a crazy possessive person because you never defined what you guys are so why should it matter if you're seeing other people?

Dating for Engineers On Valentine's Day





Happy Valentine's Day, my fellow enginerds! ;)

To celebrate this glorious single awareness day, I've compiled some of my favorite engineering memes for you. Enjoy! x

The Difference Between Hooking Up, Dating (Casual) & In A Relationship


Dating has become very confusing now a days with all the terms available to define a relationship. So here's a breakdown of the difference between the most popular terms hooking up, being casual and in a relationship. 

Does Online Dating Work for Long Term Relationships?


I remember a few years ago when the idea of online dating was so taboo. When people thought about online dating, they usually thought of the personal section of Craiglist where creeps lurked. But as the internet boomed and our smart phones became an extension of our arms, that idea quickly changed. The likes of Tinder, OkCupid, Hinge, Match.com, eHarmony, etc really revolutionized dating as we know it. But how successful is online dating?